Friday, February 27, 2015

Adorable House Guests

Our home has grown by eight feet!!!
 Blayre, Ryan, Owen (2.5 years old) and Carter (7 weeks old) moved in this week.  Ryan is finishing up his last rotation at a local hospital to graduate in Physical Therapy school.  Chloe has been especially enjoying this change at our house.  She has begged for a real baby as she feels everyone she knows is having a new sibling.  
 Carter is such a dream baby -- sleeps a TON and is so happy to have anyone hold him

 Owen has been a lot of fun - he is super expressive and is always looking forward to the kids coming home from school so he has someone fun to play with him.

Here is a little video I made of the photoshoot:

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Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Rockin' 50 Miles

Cooper and his best friend, Sam Summers were awarded their "50 miles" shirt in Mileage Club this week.  These boys are unstoppable!

Cooper has a goal of beating his last year of over 100 miles!  I think he is going to make it!

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Basement Face Lift

In preparation for Blayre, Ryan, Owen, and baby Carter moving into our house for eleven weeks we decided our basement could use a little face lift.  
 It was all kind of a snowball effect with Birch wanting to add recessed lighting and me wanting to paint the guest room and redecorate.  After we both worked ourselves to the bones and realized that there was no way we were going to have time or the energy to finish the basement ourselves we hired some help.
 We hired a terrific and really reasonably priced guy, Robert Gonzolo, to do our dry wall repair on the ceiling, re-texturing the ceiling, and painting both the walls and the ceiling.  We thought we got a killer deal with hiring him for $400 to do all that work.  
 I spent HOURS stressing over the paint color for the walls and ceiling.  I ended up going with  painting the walls (70% strength) and ceiling at (40% strength) and Birch added the recessed lighting   I made new curtains; the cute little bed is for our house guest.
 BIG project -- adding recessed lighting (previously was three shop lights)

 Guest Room make-over -- painted walls, new pillows, lamp, curtains, small dresser
 Thanks Kimberly Greenfield for the awesome picture what I used to make this beautiful HUGE print.

Kitchen:  BEFORE
The kitchen is really the last thing that we had not updated in our house.  It was hard to justify redoing it because we do not use the kitchen at all.  It holds legos, games, movies, and crafts. 

 Birch re-did the plumbing.  Seems like it never goes quiet like it should.
 I Painted the cabinets, took out the oven, new countertop, sink, faucet, tile flooring, and cabinet pulls/knobs, and I made some new artwork.
 Birch tiled the backsplash
 Barney Zauss did the beautiful tile floor work and the wood trimmed laminate counter-top. So impressed!!!

I'm pretty good at copying ideas...saw this somewhere online and redesigned it. It is framed and hung int he basement kitchen

We are pretty darn pleased with the way the whole basement turned out.  We had already updated the boy's room and the bathroom so this was the final touch.

I think we are now ready for our house guests!!!

Friday, February 20, 2015

Duck Tape Day

Chloe and Coop did a fabulous job creating shirts out of duck tape for Spirit Day!

Sunday, February 15, 2015

A Little Love

Valentine's Day came in a blurr.
Birch performed a wedding mid day for a woman in our ward that had been widowed several years ago.  It was a really sweet ceremony and kind of fun to see Birch in that light.
 The afternoon was spent preparing for our amazing Valentines dinner.  We dined on homemade chicken cordon bleu.
Chloe was my right-hand man.  She made some great chocolate dipped strawberries and heart chocolate molds.
 I've been doing a little craft group with some friends and this month we made felt heart garlands.


Friday, February 13, 2015

Tongue of Angels

I was pleased with my beautiful new poster that I designed and then picked up this morning from Costco. I designed this with the amazing macro photography from my dear friend Kimberly Baumgartner Greenfield and a few words that our family is trying so hard to improve upon. I'm hoping that a huge reminder (20X30) on our living room wall might be a constant reminder of speaking like Angels to each other. I am reminded of a favorite talk by Elder Holland where he reminds us to have a tongue of angels. It's a good read.…/…/the-tongue-of-angels…

The Tongue of Angels

Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

The Prophet Joseph Smith deepened our understanding of the power of speech when he taught, “It is by words … [that] every being works when he works by faith. God said, ‘Let there be light: and there was light.’ Joshua spake, and the great lights which God had created stood still. Elijah commanded, and the heavens were stayed for the space of three years and six months, so that it did not rain. … All this was done by faith. … Faith, then, works by words; and with [words] its mightiest works have been, and will be, performed. 1 Like all gifts “which cometh from above,” words are “sacred, and must be spoken with care, and by constraint of the Spirit.” 2
It is with this realization of the power and sanctity of words that I wish to caution us, if caution is needed, regarding how we speak to each other and how we speak of ourselves.
There is a line from the Apocrypha which puts the seriousness of this issue better than I can. It reads, “The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones.” 3 With that stinging image in mind, I was particularly impressed to read in the book of James that there was a way I could be “a perfect man.”
Said James: “For in many things we offend all. [But] if any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body.”
Continuing the imagery of the bridle, he writes: “Behold, we put bits in the horses’ mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body.
“Behold also … ships, which though they be … great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm.”
Then James makes his point: “The tongue is [also] a little member. … [But] behold, how great a [forest (Greek)] a little fire [can burn].
“… So is the tongue [a fire] among our members, … it defileth the whole body, … it is set on fire of hell.
“For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, … hath been tamed of mankind:
“But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
“Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
“Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.” 4
Well, that is pretty straightforward! Obviously James doesn’t mean our tongues are alwaysiniquitous, nor that everything we say is “full of deadly poison.” But he clearly means that at least some things we say can be destructive, even venomous—and that is a chilling indictment for a Latter-day Saint! The voice that bears profound testimony, utters fervent prayer, and sings the hymns of Zion can be the same voice that berates and criticizes, embarrasses and demeans, inflicts pain and destroys the spirit of oneself and of others in the process. “Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing,” James grieves. “My brethren [and sisters], these things ought not so to be.”
Is this something we could all work on just a little? Is this an area in which we could each try to be a little more like a “perfect” man or woman?
Husbands, you have been entrusted with the most sacred gift God can give you—a wife, a daughter of God, the mother of your children who has voluntarily given herself to you for love and joyful companionship. Think of the kind things you said when you were courting, think of the blessings you have given with hands placed lovingly upon her head, think of yourself and of her as the god and goddess you both inherently are, and then reflect on other moments characterized by cold, caustic, unbridled words. Given the damage that can be done with our tongues, little wonder the Savior said, “Not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man.” 5 A husband who would never dream of striking his wife physically can break, if not her bones, then certainly her heart by the brutality of thoughtless or unkind speech. Physical abuse is uniformly and unequivocally condemned in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If it is possible to be more condemning than that, we speak even more vigorously against all forms of sexual abuse. Today, I speak against verbal and emotional abuse of anyone against anyone, but especially of husbands against wives. Brethren, these things ought not to be.
In that same spirit we speak to the sisters as well, for the sin of verbal abuse knows no gender. Wives, what of the unbridled tongue in your mouth, of the power for good or ill in your words? How is it that such a lovely voice which by divine nature is so angelic, so close to the veil, so instinctively gentle and inherently kind could ever in a turn be so shrill, so biting, so acrid and untamed? A woman’s words can be more piercing than any dagger ever forged, and they can drive the people they love to retreat beyond a barrier more distant than anyone in the beginning of that exchange could ever have imagined. Sisters, there is no place in that magnificent spirit of yours for acerbic or abrasive expression of any kind, including gossip or backbiting or catty remarks. Let it never be said of our home or our ward or our neighborhood that “the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity … [burning] among our members.”
May I expand this counsel to make it a full family matter. We must be so careful in speaking to a child. What we say or don’t say, how we say it and when is so very, very important in shaping a child’s view of himself or herself. But it is even more important in shaping that child’s faith in us and their faith in God. Be constructive in your comments to a child—always. Never tell them, even in whimsy, that they are fat or dumb or lazy or homely. You would never do that maliciously, but they remember and may struggle for years trying to forget—and to forgive. And try not to compare your children, even if you think you are skillful at it. You may say most positively that “Susan is pretty and Sandra is bright,” but all Susan will remember is that she isn’t bright and Sandra that she isn’t pretty. Praise each child individually for what that child is, and help him or her escape our culture’s obsession with comparing, competing, and never feeling we are “enough.”
In all of this, I suppose it goes without saying that negative speaking so often flows from negative thinking, including negative thinking about ourselves. We see our own faults, we speak—or at least think—critically of ourselves, and before long that is how we see everyone and everything. No sunshine, no roses, no promise of hope or happiness. Before long we and everybody around us are miserable.
I love what Elder Orson F. Whitney once said: “The spirit of the gospel is optimistic; it trusts in God and looks on the bright side of things. The opposite or pessimistic spirit drags men down and away from God, looks on the dark side, murmurs, complains, and is slow to yield obedience.” 6 We should honor the Savior’s declaration to “be of good cheer.” 7 (Indeed, it seems to me we may be more guilty of breaking that commandment than almost any other!) Speak hopefully. Speak encouragingly, including about yourself. Try not to complain and moan incessantly. As someone once said, “Even in the golden age of civilization someone undoubtedly grumbled that everything looked too yellow.”
I have often thought that Nephi’s being bound with cords and beaten by rods must have been more tolerable to him than listening to Laman and Lemuel’s constant murmuring. 8 Surely he must have said at least once, “Hit me one more time. I can still hear you.” Yes, life has its problems, and yes, there are negative things to face, but please accept one of Elder Holland’s maxims for living—no misfortune is so bad that whining about it won’t make it worse.
Paul put it candidly, but very hopefully. He said to all of us: “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but [only] that which is good … [and] edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
“And grieve not the holy Spirit of God. …
“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you. …
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” 9
In his deeply moving final testimony, Nephi calls us to “follow the Son [of God], with full purpose of heart,” promising that “after ye have … received the baptism of fire and of the Holy Ghost, [ye] can speak with a new tongue, yea, even with the tongue of angels. … And … how could ye speak with the tongue of angels save it were by the Holy Ghost? Angels speak by the power of the Holy Ghost; wherefore, they speak the words of Christ.” 10 Indeed, Christ was and is “the Word,” according to John the Beloved, 11 full of grace and truth, full of mercy and compassion.
So, brothers and sisters, in this long eternal quest to be more like our Savior, may we try to be “perfect” men and women in at least this one way now—by offending not in word, or more positively put, by speaking with a new tongue, the tongue of angels. Our words, like our deeds, should be filled with faith and hope and charity, the three great Christian imperatives so desperately needed in the world today. With such words, spoken under the influence of the Spirit, tears can be dried, hearts can be healed, lives can be elevated, hope can return, confidence can prevail. I pray that my words, even on this challenging subject, will be encouraging to you, not discouraging, that you can hear in my voice that I love you, because I do. More importantly, please know that your Father in Heaven loves you and so does His Only Begotten Son. When They speak to you—and They will—it will not be in the wind, nor in the earthquake, nor in the fire, but it will be with a voice still and small, a voice tender and kind. 12 It will be with the tongue of angels. May we all rejoice in the thought that when we say edifying, encouraging things unto the least of these, our brethren and sisters and little ones, we say it unto God. 13 In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

17th Time Is The Charm?

 We've been taking a pre-op picture together for years!!

Surgery update...all is well. Surgery lasted about 1.5 hours and it took Alex another hour until he was ready to come home. Waking up is always the worst (next to the IV). Dr. Black feels the surgery was successful and less invasive then last year's. He was able to drill our much of the granulated, bleeding, and irritated tissue. He said his ear drum looks good. After drilling the anterior and interior portion of Alex's ear canal Dr. Black placed a mini-sinus stint (called a Propel) and feels like the fit is great. Last year we used a normal Propel stint so we're hoping the mini last longer.Alex was relieved to wake up and find out that he did not need another skin graft this year. I chuckled as all the nurses knew that he was dying to have his traditional Arby's chicken sandwich, chocolate shake, and curly fries on the way home from surgery. Unfortunately, Alex was feeling really nauseous and had to wait a bit before he could stomach his long awaited meal (he had been fasting since the previous day). So now to rest up and let it all heal!! Thanks for all the love!!!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Alysee beautiful inside and out

Alysee has really blossomed these past few years in her singing.
 She is well-loved by her choir director.

Daddy/Daughter Date With Cousins

One of Chloe's favorite events of the year is the annual Daddy/Daughter dance at the high school.  Since we decided last minute to go to Spokane for the baby blessing we made a bargain with Chloe -- Daddy would throw an amazing Daddy/Daughter Date for Chloe AND ALL HER GIRL COUSINS!  Talk about a fun daddy!
 All the daddy's loaded up the girls (which had put on make-up, fancy dresses, and corsages made by ME) and went to Ihop for dinner.
 After dinner they all went to a nearby church and did games, dancing, and Just Dance for HOURS!

Glow Stick Dancing
 Must be tough being an awesome Daddy!
 All the lovely ladies and their Daddies (note:  Chloe is pouting because at the end of the night (it was like 10:30 pm) she decided that this date was not equal to the ball in Yakima.  Basically she was pulling an "I'm a brat." card.  She really did have a fabulous time!!)

Two lucky girls and their lucky Daddy